Dr
C H Asrani |
Hello Sharmila ji |
Sharmila
Thakur |
She is dark, but I want her to stop
feeling that she is inferior to someone just because of her colour |
Dr
C H Asrani |
We have a lot on our site about parental
role in behavior of children please go thru that |
Dr
C H Asrani |
She should be given examples of people
who are liked by all in spite of their less attractive attributes |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Mrs Thakur, I am sure one of both of you
(U & ur husband) must be dark |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Show her how you are liked. Only by
examples will she learn not to feel inferior |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Whenever she does a good task tell her
that now her color is not significant but her deeds are |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Hi Kinnari |
Kinnari |
Hi doctor, my 13 year old son seems to
be obese, is it right to make him join a gym at this age |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Yes Kinnari Any age is the right age for
looking after overweight |
Kinnari |
There is no history of obesity in the
family, how come he is obese |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Now begin controlling it |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Kinnari if there is NO history of
obesity in family then you have been over feeding him |
Kinnari |
No he eats normal food, do u think I
should get him to see a doctor |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Kinari control ALL in between snacks
like wafers etc |
Dr
C H Asrani |
If he really does not eat more please
see a doctor |
Reshma |
My child doesnt have regular
toilet habits |
Reshma |
He is 2 years old now |
Dr
C H Asrani |
U mean he is constipated or is not
regular? |
Reshma |
I think he is constipated |
Reshma |
he seems also not to eat properly |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Reshma, All mothers feel that their
child is not eating well |
Dr
C H Asrani |
A child may get 4-5 stools daily or may
not get one for 4/5 days |
Dr
C H Asrani |
& both will be taken as normal. What
is important is the discomfort the child fels |
Reshma |
But then wont that be a problem at a
later stage? |
Dr
C H Asrani |
No Reshma It wont be problem |
Dr
C H Asrani |
STOP forcing him to eat (I am sure you
do) and then see he will start eating and his bowels also will regularize |
Reshma |
Thank you. one more thing |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Well tell me |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Yes Reshma U wanted to ask something
more |
Reshma |
Well there is a friend of mine and he is
very smart compared to his age. I feel. at the age of 4� years , he know lots of things |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Yes so what Reshma |
Reshma |
Do you think we should be
training/growing our child in a particular way to achieve this |
Dr
C H Asrani |
Reshma Every child is different. What is
needed is to give him a healthy peaceful environment and NOT to force about anything |
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