{"id":2544,"date":"2023-09-01T05:53:41","date_gmt":"2023-09-01T05:53:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/growingwell.com\/?page_id=2544"},"modified":"2023-09-13T12:33:03","modified_gmt":"2023-09-13T12:33:03","slug":"parental-influence-in-behavioral-disorders","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/growingwell.com\/?page_id=2544","title":{"rendered":"Parental influence in behavioral disorders"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"2544\" class=\"elementor elementor-2544\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e89c703 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"e89c703\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-128d829 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"128d829\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8fccda5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8fccda5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.14.0 - 26-06-2023 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Parental influence in behavioral disorders<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5933feb elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5933feb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">By \u2013 Dr C H Asrani (DNB; MBBS; DAc)<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fe2c9f4 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"fe2c9f4\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d7cdc24 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d7cdc24\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What exactly is behaviour?<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-600bd67 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"600bd67\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.14.0 - 26-06-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>Behaviour is the way we react. Behaviour may also mean\u00a0<i>conduct &#8211;\u00a0<\/i>that is, how a person\u2019s actions fit society\u2019s idea of right and wrong.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7607d45 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"7607d45\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f55a920 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f55a920\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What can affect Behaviour in a child?<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ade4125 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ade4125\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>Heredity<\/li><li>Environment<\/li><li>Learning Conditioning<\/li><li>Positive reinforcements<\/li><\/ul><p>Behaviour grows !<\/p><p>Behaviour has patterns and shape just as the physical structure. Just as the body grows in a reasonably patterned manner, so also does the behaviour.<\/p><p>Like the physical growth, behaviour too is strongly influenced by the home and other surroundings in which the child grows up. The strongest and the longest environment to affect the child are the parents. Most parents consider it their responsibility as well the privilege to provide the best possible environment conducive to child\u2019s physical growth. It should be ditto for behaviour growth too!<\/p><p>The more a parent knows about the normal changes that take place in a child\u2019s behaviour when he grows up, the more successful they can be in guiding the child along the complicated path leading to maturity<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8c9247d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"8c9247d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3344def elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3344def\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Mother Child relationship<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a9a8d0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4a9a8d0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Mothers should know<\/p><ul><li>What to expect?<\/li><li>Different types of personalities &amp; how they behave<\/li><li>Scolding, beating and constant reprimanding does not work &amp;<\/li><li>Constant supervision is not possible<\/li><\/ul><p>A mother must know about the behaviours, which commonly characterize each different age level, so that she can do a better job in dealing with the child.<br \/>Also the problems she will face are not all unpredictable, they too follow a set pattern.<\/p><p><u><\/u><em>Example:<\/em><\/p><p>5 yr old is loving, docile and obedient in his relation with the mother<br \/>5<sup>1<\/sup>\/<sub>2<\/sub>-6 yr tends to thrust out and resist her in his effort to be a big boy<br \/>7 yr may feel she is mean &amp; cruel<\/p><p>The adolescent, if he is to grow up into a mature capable adult, must learn to think and act for himself; must grow beyond the places where he is completely guided by what &#8220;Mummy says\u2026&#8221;<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0248cda e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"0248cda\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-369d3d5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"369d3d5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Father Child relationship<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c23bef elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4c23bef\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Father is supposed to be a vital factor in the baby\u2019s development. Not many, of course realize\/accept this. Fathers should find time to get involved in bringing up children and not merely to provide the funds and an occasional hug or pat!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e05f4a8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e05f4a8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Child needs a Role Model and who better than Father.<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-494f2e8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"494f2e8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What are the different types of behavioural disorders in chidren?<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c1ac5ab e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"c1ac5ab\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9e12fe8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9e12fe8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">A. Developmental Problems<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2526636 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2526636\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>Poor School Performance<\/li><li>School refusal (school phobia<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8637d14 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"8637d14\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-950d989 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"950d989\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">A. Developmental Problems<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-db217f9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"db217f9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>Poor School Performance<\/li><li>School refusal (school phobia<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9002797 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"9002797\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aa1b806 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"aa1b806\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">B. Disruptive Behaviour Problems<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c7477df elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c7477df\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorders (ADHD)<\/li><li>Conduct disorders<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2211917 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"2211917\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-552b225 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"552b225\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">C. Emotional Disorders<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-134deac elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"134deac\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>Eating disorders &#8211;\u00a0<i>anorexia nervosa \/ bulimia nervosa obesity \/ pica<\/i><\/li><li>Phobic disorders<\/li><li>Depressive disorders<\/li><li>Overanxious disorders<\/li><li>Conversion disorders<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e4e4fff e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"e4e4fff\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dcd4826 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"dcd4826\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">D. Behaviour c physical Manifestations\n\n<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-638b8eb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"638b8eb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>Failure to thrive\u00a0(without a disease)<\/li><li>Encopresis<\/li><li>Enuresis<\/li><li>Sleep disorders<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-911674f e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"911674f\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cc8cbca elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"cc8cbca\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">E. Chronic illness<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-16939a9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"16939a9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>Shock &amp; disbelief<\/li><li>Protest &amp; Anguish<\/li><li>Restitution<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cda79ed e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"cda79ed\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-82845ff elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"82845ff\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">F. Separation experiences<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a77f23d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a77f23d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>Death of a parent, sibling or other significant person<\/li><li>Hospitalization<\/li><li>Divorce<\/li><li>Working Parents<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9915dbb e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"9915dbb\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bd3cfcf elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bd3cfcf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>A study of over 100 Behavioural disorders in children showed the following reactions of parents very commonly lead to behavioural disorders.<\/p><table border=\"0\" width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\"><tbody><tr><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Rejection<\/span><\/td><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#F8F8F8\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">A child who feels rejected may react by<br \/>&#8211; Feelings of insecurity &amp; isolation.<br \/>&#8211; Attention seeking, negativistic.<br \/>&#8211; Unable to give and receive affection<\/span><\/td><\/tr><tr><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Overprotection-Domination<\/span><\/td><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#F8F8F8\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">In today\u2019s time of precious child and 1-2 child families norms, overprotection is the commonest emotion. Most parents also tend to mould the child just the way they are (domination).<\/span><p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Exposure to these may manifest as Submission, inadequacy, lack of initiative, tendency to passive dependency in relation with others<\/span><\/p><\/td><\/tr><tr><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Overindulgence<\/span><\/td><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#F8F8F8\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">\u2018<i>Jo mangoge, Milega\u2019<\/i><br \/>Parents feel they earn for the child. They all want to provide what they themselves never got. The feeling of NOT depriving the child leads to overindulgence which makes the child Selfish, demanding, with inability to tolerate frustration. Rebellious to authority, excessive need of attention, lack of responsibility<\/span><\/td><\/tr><tr><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Perfectionism-unrealistic ambitions for child<\/span><\/td><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#F8F8F8\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Child internalizes parents unrealistic standards. Inevitable failure leads to continual frustration, guilt and self-devaluation<\/span><\/td><\/tr><tr><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Faulty discipline<\/span><\/td><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#F8F8F8\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Overpermissiveness, associated with insecurity, antisocial aggressiveness. Severe discipline typically leads to excessive condemnation of self for socially disapproved behaviour, anxiety over aggressive behaviour. Inconsistent discipline commonly results in lack of stable values for guiding behaviour with tendency to inconsistency and vacillation in meeting problems.<\/span><\/td><\/tr><tr><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Sibling rivalry<\/span><\/td><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#F8F8F8\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Direct or indirect hostility, insecurity, lack of self confidence, regression<\/span><\/td><\/tr><tr><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Marital discord and broken homes<\/span><\/td><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#F8F8F8\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Anxiety, tension, insecurity, lack of secure home base, tendency to evaluate world as a dangerous and insecure place. Conflicting loyalties, lack of adequate model for proper ego development<\/span><\/td><\/tr><tr><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Faulty parental models<\/span><\/td><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#F8F8F8\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Internalization of unethical and socially undesirable value attitudes which frequently lead to difficulties with law<\/span><\/td><\/tr><tr><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Contradictory demands<\/span><\/td><td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#F8F8F8\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Lack of integrated frame of reference; confusion and self devaluation<\/span><\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ef56626 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"ef56626\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9c3ec1e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9c3ec1e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What are the common presentations of Behavioural disorders in children?<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f2624e3 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con\" data-id=\"f2624e3\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-72cc074 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"72cc074\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>What steps can parents take to ensure their children are safe from all these?<\/p><ol><li>Be a parent, not a pal &#8211; being a parent means setting limits and making rules<\/li><li>Discipline early &#8211; consistent authority and vacillating &#8211; permissive now, clamp down next does not work<\/li><li>Spend time with your kids &#8211; overplaying the quality time bit! The busy parents of today keep postponing spending time with their little one under the pretext that on a holiday thye would go out or for a picnic etc, Child needs it then and not whenever. For the child the quantum of time matters more than the ambience they spend it in.<\/li><li>Don\u2019t get carried away with &#8220;self-esteem&#8221; &#8211; praise only genuine achievements. Not to protect too much.<\/li><li>Control the electronics media \u2013 TV programmes to be controlled and monitored by parents.<\/li><li>Know what your child is upto &#8211; Unsupervised kids: more problems<\/li><li>Stay married &#8211; children with only one biological parent are more likely to present with behavioural problems.<\/li><\/ol><p>If you have a query and you are a registered user, click here.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parental influence in behavioral disorders By \u2013 Dr C H Asrani (DNB; MBBS; DAc) What exactly is behaviour? Behaviour is the way we react. Behaviour may also mean\u00a0conduct &#8211;\u00a0that is, how a person\u2019s actions fit society\u2019s idea of right and wrong. What can affect Behaviour in a child? 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